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It's a new year - 2016
Monday, January 11, 2016
Hi, it's a new year again. Days, months and years seemed to flash by these days, I don't know why. Anyway, I had some thoughts, so shall just put it down here.

Just last week, a friend of mine went out with a group of ladies, they were in their mid to late thirties, mostly single, had excellent career achievements, earning more than enough money and had just came back from a ski trip in Italy.

My girlfriend was awe-struck and really loved the idea. It's a dream to be able to live like that. Indeed, it is, and I think I might become one of them in the near future. With me still single right now, and getting one rack higher in the corporate ladder, it really feels that way. It's the glam life, the luxurious life, the life I could work towards - everything seems great - and yet something still feels weirdly lacking.

For a few long moments, I couldn't point out what, it's definitely not marriage or children (they could be a void, but I'm quite sure that wasn't the main thing at that point in time) and as I walked on from the train station towards a day's work, it hit me - Passion, and compassion. We will have everything that we ever want, money, clothes, technology, career, food, wine, sex, even a comfy temperature so we will have a good night's sleep, but for all the resources that we own, how much of this will be given back to something that we can truly believe in? Or something that is outside of this lifestyle that I have built for myself, something that will make the world a better place? Or all of the above?

I don't think I will ever want to forget that - my passion, and my compassion. To always remember to give up some of my resources to something that I truly believe in, to have that firm, constant belief, for no apparent reason or supporting, and to let that resources run up to something that is beyond "me". Beyond that glamorous lifestyle, that dress, that pair of shoes, that bottle of wine, that ski trip, or that next rack of the ladder (maybe?).

And if I ever do, please, remind me.
2016, let it be a whole new exhilarating year. Blessings to us all.

Love
Pud

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遗落的心
Monday, July 6, 2015
旅游让我魂不守舍,到处奔跑时,常常一个不小心会把“心”遗失在不该掉落的地方。

我通常都会把她找回来,不过她总是有意无意落东落西。。。



寻回的那一大部分依然足够我继续生活,继续勇敢,继续开心 :) ------ 而且有时候更加勇敢,更加快乐。



可是那些遗落的“心”,再也找不回来。
希望她们好好的呆着,在不同的地方继续爱着。。。

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潇洒走一回
Sunday, April 19, 2015
下着雨的星期天清晨,在办公桌听着收音机,真的很想闭上双眼,趴在桌上睡到饱。

最近有失眠的状况,不过今天不是因为失眠。因为公司系统要upgrade,所以早上7点就坐在电脑面前呆着。(真的是呆着)

喝着咖啡,还听得见鸟啼声,勃有另一番风味。

不知不觉最后的上传是一年多前的事情。一年多里找到了新的工作,拿了新工作的第一份花红,喜欢了一个男生,被死神突然夺去了一个朋友,也累积了多一岁。人生匆匆,很多变化,可是是不是因为这份匆匆,所以感觉又仿佛一直平行着,没有变过。又或许因为每天变化只是一点点,所以平时不觉得,不过随着岁月累积,在一年之后回头过往才恍然变了好多。

最近在“一个”上读了一篇文章《不在一起也挺好》。读完哭了。

是真的,有时不在一起真的也挺好,回忆和感觉永远存在最美好的时光。那样的感觉只有初见,只有刚萌芽的感情才会有。所以也罢了,哭过了就该好好放下,潇洒走一回。:)



Edits @6 Jul 2015: 今天重新读了这一篇, 把自己给逗笑。

那种喜欢建立在非常肤浅的一切,现在想想怎么会喜欢?应该只是因为喝了酒之后那种微醺+暧昧的感觉在作怪。加上一直聊天,结果变成一种一直想做的习惯。真是白痴,好在把习惯戒了,不然不知道会多尴尬!!!!!!

潇洒走一回个屁啦。。。

不过如果真的在一段感情里可以一直保持那种如初见的感觉,真的会很美。 :)

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To all 25-years-olds
Tuesday, December 3, 2013
Recently, I got news that one of our classmates passed on from her cancer relapse. She was 25. Right at the quarter of a century old.

Death - I guess he doesn't really care how old you are or how much you are loved or will be missed - when it's time, it's time.

I wasn't particularly close to her, but she was always that funny, cheery, kind and beautiful girl who was loved and liked by many. I would like to think that she has never lived her short life in vain, despite the struggles she went through. The peace and laughter, love and joy she brings, the happy memories with her closest friends, the bits and pieces as her parents' little girl. It will all stay.

I hope she's somewhere better, somewhere beautiful and painless and she's happy, funny and cheery as ever.

Maybe we'll meet again. Maybe not. But regardless, let's wish all the 25-years-olds all the best. For a life not lived in vain - for a life well-lived.

God bless.

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射手座
Friday, November 1, 2013
“射手座想逃避现实时,就是到山野奔跑,风帆、潜水、飞伞,怎么危险怎么豁出去。或辞工不干,或来个真正的失踪,谁的电话都不接。“都这么配合了还不满意,反正受够也懒得伪装了,不接受就干脆拉倒。”再也不想承受的射手,就这样头也不回地远走高飞。”

我是非常射手的射手
Enough said.

PS. 这是唐立淇老师射手座的部分解说。射手的都还蛮准的,不妨看看。

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